I just went throught a big wedding 2 months ago. No matter how much you try or what you do, someone is going to get ticked off. There will be to many cheifs and not enough Indians. All you need to focus on is you and your husband to be. ENJOY the moment!! Our wedding day, my wife was wandup like a 10 day clock. HA And she will be the first to tell you that it will go by so fast that it want even seem like the whole thing lasted 15 min.
And when you get back you will find out all kinda of things that went on and you never even knew it, I am still finding out thing.
My wifes Grandmother has a flower shop and as directed many wedding. She never had a daughter and my wife is her only granddaughter, so this was to be the wedding of all wedding under her direction. We started decorating the Sunday night before and the rest of the week. Well there is this one woman who wanted to HELP, so she let her. Well by the end of the week she was telling us all what to do and how to do it. So the Church and Life Center is decorated to the T. Everything from lights to ferns to, well best way I can describe it was that I felt like someone else should be getting married there. They all decided to have a meal for our wedding, so the day be for I cooked 150lbs of Boston butts, we as a family fixed the whole meal. So while we were in the wedding , this woman that wanted to help, all she had to do was put everything in grandmothers fancy serving bowls. Well I found out later that she took up grandmother bowls and put down her own , fixed everything up, took pictures and told everyone that she catered the wedding. My wife's grandmother was fit to be tied.
Now I am sure you wont have anything like that to happen, plus I could write a book on all the things that happened that day. The main thing to remember is that this is your wedding and no matter what happens or what is said you need to try to enjoy this happy moment in your lives, because you will never have another wedding like your first.
I wish you and your husband to be the best of luck.
Oh one last thing, there were several people said that they were going to pack us a basket of food to take with us, well everyone forgot and we had to eat at the only place that was close to where we were staying that night, Mc Donalds. HA HA I don't care for the place but I wouldn't take anything for the memories.