I am not being critical of them,
By "critical" I simply meant" to evaluate and find fault". If you did not mean to communicate in your posts that you had evaluated/judged their decision to post the pics, and found fault with that decision, then I have misunderstood. I apologize.
concerned that there are people out there who think its normal to post pictures of dead children online-yes.
The opposite of "normal" is "abnormal". Rather than trying looking at something and wondering if it is good or bad/right or wrong, I try to separate into different/deviant. Their decision to post those pics is different than what I would have chosen to do perhaps, but it is not for me to judge whether it was bad or wrong. It is simply different ~ different than what some would choose to do, not different than what others would choose to do. Not illegal, not harming with intent. Different. If you choose to divide into right/wrong or good/bad, that is your business, it does not affect me, and I don't care. It will not, in anyway, impact my life. It is simply different than me.
I have never lost a baby, but I know the kind of person I am, the values I have, and would never post pics of a dead baby or any dead family member on any website for any reason-you don't agree with that fine, but I'm not changing my beliefs just because you don't agree with it either-
Not once have I either agreed or disagreed with your "beliefs". At the risk of being redundant, my thoughts on it were "I don't care". They still are. I still don't care. And I am really ok with you not caring what my beliefs are ~ why would you? They don't impact you. The only reason I am caring enough to respond is that you seem to have taken my comments as a personal attack of your belief system, and that was not my intent.