My daughter got her first Brahman heifer 5 months ago. When we first brought her to the Ag barn from the breeder we had her tied up in the arena while we set up her pen. She was going crazy, thrashing herself around, like someone was picking her up and throwing her. She ended up busting blood vessles under her chin and we had to leave the halther off for about 3 weeks so she could heal. During this time we brushed her, pet her, and loved on her. After she healed, trying to get the halter on her was a struggle. After finally getting the halter on, we would leave it on while we would train her. But every time she would get out of the halter. So we tied a knot in the halter so it would not loose, she still got out. We tried an adjustable halter, and she managed to get out of that one as well. Then in trying to work with her - impossible. She faught us every time. Being extremely stubborn and hard headed, which I do know they are known for. but we have not been able to do anything with her. We have yet been able to lead her. while trying to tame and train her we offered her encouragement by talking to her, petting her, and giving her range cubes. After a while of being unsuccessful in working with her at the Ag barn, we took her to a friends house. They have other show heifers and they are always at their barn. this also has been very unsuccessful. Recently she almost broke my dauhters boyfriends arm by acting crazy and slamming his arm in to a pole. She butted his mom and lifted her off the ground. She slammed her into a wall. She kicked his dad 3x and drug him while trying to work with her. we were unable to take her to a recent show because we feel that she is too dangerous, not to mention not trained. while feeding all the cows i tried to corral her into the pen where her food was. She didnt want to move and so when I grabbed the lead rope she went crazy. She also tried to butt me and turned as if planning to kick me. When she finally went into her pen I brushed her to let her know I am not her enemy. She will be your best friend until you try to tell her what to do. And when she doesnt want to do anything, she turns crazy and has become dangerous. We tried peace pellets and calf calm as a last resort and neither affected her at all. My daugher is now scared of her. I called the breeder for help and he offered to swap her out. we have decided to do this, even though we are extremely upsset about it. she is a part of our family now. But I cant afford to keep such an expensive "pet" that my daughter is scared of. We have tried everything that everybody has advised us to do. Nothing seems to work. It seems that she has decided she wants to be a pasture cow instead of a show cow. People that have been around cattle for a while are al baffled by her behavior. Any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated. we are at such a loss. But we are now on a time crunch. we only have 3 weeks to get another heifer into my daughters name so she can participate in the next major show. please help!