My brother too Dad to Oklahoma last summer and Dad just cussed him all the say there saying he was lost. I am sure he's done it with me, too. He doens't get on the phone a lot, but he has his own phone in his room and he will call his relatives and get them all confused. No obsessions yet. My Mom had onw with chocolate.
Well, Dad does have one thing. He blames my sister and her husband for everything. They put him here, they want his house, they want his money. Well, they don't want the house and there is no money. He told a nurse that when he came here, I dropped him off and said, "now get out." Makes you feel good. We were getting to the driving thing but going abruptly to the nursing home cured that. I hated to do it so suddenly, but I just broke one day. I could not drive over there again and listen to them rant about things that weren't there. He has moments when he's reall clear and then he can't remember that his wife died.
Since he came home with us for the funeral, I know exactly what meds he's on. Ambien, Neurontin, Atavan, (.5mg BID if needed for aggitation), asperin, Celexa, and a 12 hour nitro pill.
Also Flomax, Lipitor and something for his blood pressure. It's a lot but the only thing I really question is the Celeaxa. He has a planning meeting on the 16th of April and I will be there.
I hate it for him, too. I know he'll get worse. It's sad to watch.