My parents want to slow down, not quite retire, but wnat to be able to do some things other than be on the farm all year, and get a little out of the day-to-day affairs of it, and it was such a hard decision for me to decide wether or not to go backmy biggest problem was being able to get along with my father as some of his old habits (and mine too) have to die.. I'm the only child, so if I wasn't going to go back to the farm, it would have been up for sale, and well, it's home to me, I couldn't bear to see that. the other aspect of it is that I have no family other than my parents, and it's going to be pretty isolated up there, though I'd rather be lonely and alone than lonely around 2 million people.
When I'm old and gray, if I have kids, I don't know what I'd do, but for now I'm thinking if they don't want to be on it and work it and go through the sacrifices that my parents and by then I will have made, then they don't get to sell it, either it will become a foundation, or sold and most of the money goes to a worthy cause
The way I look at it now is that without the place, I'd be homeless, even though I have a roof over my head