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<blockquote data-quote="Wisteria Farms" data-source="post: 643006" data-attributes="member: 6734"><p>It sounds like this is a totally different situation but just BE CAREFUL in everything you do. We had a "situation" with a girl that has some issues (my daughter's friend)....she was BEGGING for attention (not uncommon) only she was making inappropriate remarks to my husband. It made us both very uncomfortable so I told her if she didn't stop she would not be welcome here. She stopped. But then she started saying her father was an alcoholic and she couldn't take it anymore...she'd call saying she'd been kicked out of her house AGAIN and could she come stay...we'd let her stay for a night (mind you during all this we're FREAKED OUT trying to be sure that my husband is NEVER alone with her because she is MESSED UP!!) Well, my daughter kept asking if she could move in and I kept saying "no"...through all this I'm feeling like a total heel for not helping this child...but as I tried to explain to my daughter, some kids you feel like are victims of circumstance (like your son's friend) but others CREATE problems and I just felt like I didn't have it in me to go down that road. So, as some has said, be truthful with yourself as to if you can REALLY do this. I wish there was something I could do for him..he sounds like he really needs the help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Wisteria Farms, post: 643006, member: 6734"] It sounds like this is a totally different situation but just BE CAREFUL in everything you do. We had a "situation" with a girl that has some issues (my daughter's friend)....she was BEGGING for attention (not uncommon) only she was making inappropriate remarks to my husband. It made us both very uncomfortable so I told her if she didn't stop she would not be welcome here. She stopped. But then she started saying her father was an alcoholic and she couldn't take it anymore...she'd call saying she'd been kicked out of her house AGAIN and could she come stay...we'd let her stay for a night (mind you during all this we're FREAKED OUT trying to be sure that my husband is NEVER alone with her because she is MESSED UP!!) Well, my daughter kept asking if she could move in and I kept saying "no"...through all this I'm feeling like a total heel for not helping this child...but as I tried to explain to my daughter, some kids you feel like are victims of circumstance (like your son's friend) but others CREATE problems and I just felt like I didn't have it in me to go down that road. So, as some has said, be truthful with yourself as to if you can REALLY do this. I wish there was something I could do for him..he sounds like he really needs the help. [/QUOTE]
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