inyati13
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I got a call from my brother today. He was at the Nursing Home visiting mom. She will be 91 on January 21. He said mom wanted to speak to me. She has a phone in her room but it is call-in-only. so she was on his cell.
Mom: I gave you $70 and I wonder what you did with it.
Me: Mom, I don't have your money.
Mom: Yes you do. I gave you $70 of my money to keep for me.
Me: When did you give it to me.
Mom: It was a while ago but I don't forget money, I gave it to you and I want to know where it is.
Be aware that she did have $70 and my brother took her to WalMart and she spent $40 of it. Rob gave me the balance of $30. Over the past year, she has spent about $20 of the $40 so there is about $10 in a container I keep in the trunk of the car.
Me : I don't know mom. Where did I put it?
Mom: How am I suppose to know? But don't try to fool me, you got my money.
At this point, I could see that my best strategy was to lie.
Me: Mom, the day you gave me that $70, I checked dad out of the Nursing Home and took him to the farm. On the way to the farm, I gave dad the $70.
Mom: You did. But it was my money.
Me: I know mom but I gave it to dad.
Mom: What did he do with it?
Me: I don't know mom, I would say dad still has it.
Mom: I gave you $70 and I wonder what you did with it.
Me: Mom, I don't have your money.
Mom: Yes you do. I gave you $70 of my money to keep for me.
Me: When did you give it to me.
Mom: It was a while ago but I don't forget money, I gave it to you and I want to know where it is.
Be aware that she did have $70 and my brother took her to WalMart and she spent $40 of it. Rob gave me the balance of $30. Over the past year, she has spent about $20 of the $40 so there is about $10 in a container I keep in the trunk of the car.
Me : I don't know mom. Where did I put it?
Mom: How am I suppose to know? But don't try to fool me, you got my money.
At this point, I could see that my best strategy was to lie.
Me: Mom, the day you gave me that $70, I checked dad out of the Nursing Home and took him to the farm. On the way to the farm, I gave dad the $70.
Mom: You did. But it was my money.
Me: I know mom but I gave it to dad.
Mom: What did he do with it?
Me: I don't know mom, I would say dad still has it.