I understand that. I'm just saying that is probably why I view it differently. I've worked with kids with and without disabilities and seen all kinds of gifts, abilities, skills, and disabilities. One deficite doesn't necessarily define a person's abilities as a whole.
I just hear this one used all the time. Someone goes through a drive- through or checks out at the grocery, and the teen has some trouble with the transaction. That seems to be the current story everyone loves to tell, and apparently, it means that kid is destined to pick up aluminum cans for a living.
I don't know how other's mean it. But I am not placing the blame on the kids. If you look back at some of my fist post in this thread you will read where i said we as parents, teachers,our governments hand in our educational requirements are letting our kids down.
The last thing I am talking about is kids with learning disabilities.
I agree with where someone mentioned there are kids who are encouragible who's only purpose for attending school is to disrupt classes and have no interest in being at school to begin with. And because their is so much wrong with our modern school system the list of problems go on and on.
You said yourself that is all you hear are incidents like the one I mentioned ? So what makes me any different than all the others you have heard about ?
These little incidents eventually can turn in to bigger problems.
Example, here at a local high school a brother and sister in the 7 th grade of school. The girl was real popular, star basket ball player, made the honor roll. Well liked by her community, church friends.
Her brother was a complete opposite, was held back one grade level. Teachers said he had no learning disabilities, they wanted to put him in some kind of special education classes. For some reason someone felt he didn't need help. He couldn't do simple math, among other things. The way i know all this is because i am friends with the boys uncle who asked me to give the boy work if i ever needed some help on the farm. So i did. Hardest worker, very respectful, good manners. I was impressed. When i paid him it was very obvious the boy couldn't count money. Had no clue how much he had earned. I took the time to explain that i had paid him $10 an hour and that we had worked 6 hours that day welding and because he had done such a good job I made his pay an even $ 100 as a bonus and hoped he would come work for me again. Hoped to sort of help as a mentor. Help him get on the right track.
Unfortunately the boys sister and other kids at his school had teasd, taunted him for his being slow or inability to learn. Which i find was hard to beleave. Boy seemed very bright, willing to learn to me.
I guess he finally got his fill of whatever was going on. One morning when his parents went grocery shopping. The boy takes a 22. Goes into his sisters room while she is asleep. Shoots her in the eye killing her dead.
Then he waits on his parents to come home so he could kill them but gets tired of waiting and drives himself to the sheriff's office and turns himself in.
He goes to prison, 6 months latter hangs himself in his cell.
Kid's being neglected even when it comes to learning has alot more effect on them than people think. It trickles right on through society. A big part of why our prisons are full, over crowed.
Reminds me of some show about a black basket ball coach, comes into a school and see's the importance of education verses the sport of high school basket ball, close the gym until all of his players get their grades up.