I'm learning alot from this thread about how different parts of the country eat.
For me:
Beans belong in chili along with ground beef
Sugar does not belong in cornbread
Pineapple and pepperoni is fine on a pizza, especially pepperoni
I love grits and I like okra, grits are supposed to have salt, pepper and cheese, maybe some eggs in them or shrimp, not sugar unless eating it as a dessert.
I'll eat okra fried, boiled and pickled
never heard of raisins, carrots or peanuts in spaghetti, sounds disgusting, used to have cajun neighbors that put hot dogs in it