I would check out this "homestead act" might be something there that might benefit you.
Had a relative that had a mortage at high interest rates years ago, ended up paying like $10,000 grand a year on the interest and $2-3000 grand on the principle, and yes they lost it.. would have been better off renting at that rate.
Remember Proverbs warning about "surety" in the Old Testament.
Most lenders don't give a hoot about you and your situation, all they care about is their bottom line.
There is also a clause with some banks, that a 3rd party can buy out and call up the loan.
Meaning someone who wants your place can go to the bank and say--I want to buy that mortgage. They slap down the money, and now they hold your ownership and you have to pay them. They can then request FULL payment, which is due usually in 6 months, and if you cannot pay, they forclose and you are out the door, and there is NOTHING you can do about it. I know of cases where that has happened. One was a sawmill worth $8,000,000, and the owner had a mortgage of I think it was about $1,000,000 so he could make improvements. He had it figured out that is could be re-paid on time, but someone big bought the mortgage and called up the full debt, and the guy lost his mill because he couldn't find $1,000,000 in 6 months time.
Very wicked, but some rich dude didn't care a bit about the guy who lost his business.
I have heard of other cases too so
Be careful.....