OMG!!! Well I knew that getting her up and working her legs might help. but thanks for the tip, it does make sense, when we humans get bloated - LOL - if we move around it always helps. I'm game to try at least. Doesn't cost a lot, well at the price of gas today, maybe that's not so true.
today's update:
She does seem less bloated today, very active, trying to get up on her own. I stood her up and she actually beared her weight and stood up while I let go of balancing her. Not for very long but about 30 sec, or so. That is still a definite improvement. She did nurse 1/2 bottle this am, I'm trying to be careful and just not let her give too much fluid at a time causing more gas.
I can't thank you all enough for your help. She just might make it in spite of ME yet.