you fought in the 1812 war....WOW! that's 198 years ago add on the average age of a soldier and that would make you older than dirt. :help: :lol:alftn":4hh35f3f said:Fought in the war of 1812 to keep it that way..
I am Proud,Vain,mean, and several othe things but that is only one side of the coin...I like to say I am red neck , white trash and proud of it..
alftn":31nkif9x said:How we see ourselves, how others see us, and how we really are...The three are usually quite different...
I am a Tennessee, a southern and be nice proud of it....
We ( my family) fought in the Revolution to make this Republic/ confedration
Fought in the war of 1812 to keep it that way..
Family even fought in the war to steal Texas from Mexico and make the great state of Texas
Fought in the war of The northen Aggression,(civil war), another war brought to you by Republicans...did not turn out so well...
I am Proud,Vain,mean, and several othe things but that is only one side of the coin...I like to say I am red neck , white trash and proud of it..
iowa hawkeyes":2iv4zcdv said:alftn":2iv4zcdv said:How we see ourselves, how others see us, and how we really are...The three are usually quite different...
I am a Tennessee, a southern and be nice proud of it....
We ( my family) fought in the Revolution to make this Republic/ confedration
Fought in the war of 1812 to keep it that way..
Family even fought in the war to steal Texas from Mexico and make the great state of Texas
Fought in the war of The northen Aggression,(civil war), another war brought to you by Republicans...did not turn out so well...
I am Proud,Vain,mean, and several othe things but that is only one side of the coin...I like to say I am red neck , white trash and proud of it..
I don't know anyone in Iowa that harkens back to ancestors in the Civil War. We were essentially a non-entity in the war. But I find it interesting how ppl from the south really bring that part of American history up. What do the teachers say about the Civil War when they teach it? Do southerners have a very different view of the war from the north. (Clearly aftln, you do, as you refer to it as the northern Aggression) Just curious. My ancestors came from Holland in the mid 1800's so I don't have the same background.
BTW, I describe myself as nice.
mine crossed water, mountains, battled diesease. weather, fought indians...... just to get here from georgia :lol:iowa hawkeyes":2txbul0e said:alftn":2txbul0e said:How we see ourselves, how others see us, and how we really are...The three are usually quite different...
I am a Tennessee, a southern and be nice proud of it....
We ( my family) fought in the Revolution to make this Republic/ confedration
Fought in the war of 1812 to keep it that way..
Family even fought in the war to steal Texas from Mexico and make the great state of Texas
Fought in the war of The northen Aggression,(civil war), another war brought to you by Republicans...did not turn out so well...
I am Proud,Vain,mean, and several othe things but that is only one side of the coin...I like to say I am red neck , white trash and proud of it..
I don't know anyone in Iowa that harkens back to ancestors in the Civil War. We were essentially a non-entity in the war. But I find it interesting how ppl from the south really bring that part of American history up. What do the teachers say about the Civil War when they teach it? Do southerners have a very different view of the war from the north. (Clearly aftln, you do, as you refer to it as the northern Aggression) Just curious. My ancestors came from Holland in the mid 1800's so I don't have the same background.
BTW, I describe myself as nice.
grannysoo":5vdeyf9j said:A left wing long haired uber liberal hippie style flower child that is a supporter of Big "O" and all of the utopian ideals that are being bestowed upon me and my family.
And..... at times, a liar. :mrgreen:
alftn":3ew0f6bj said:I am proud of my history, and of AMERICA, but the TENNESSEE part of me still resents the 20 years or so of occupation by Federal Troops...The wholesale Raping of the south that follow for the next 100 years...by Yankees
If we open a quarrel between past and present, we shall find that we have lost the future.
Winston Churchill
It is interesting to hear you say that. Many groups of people in America today seem to resent still the way their ancestors were treated 150 years ago. Native Americans, African Americans, Irish, Italians, Japanese, Yankees, Rebels so on and so forth. Lots of them want monetary awards, acknowledgment, apologies blah blah blah.alftn":2s5w28vb said:the TENNESSEE part of me still resents the 20 years or so of occupation by Federal Troops...The wholesale Raping of the south that follow for the next 100 years...by Yankees
angie":2lbqr2q4 said:It is interesting to hear you say that. Many groups of people in America today seem to resent still the way their ancestors were treated 150 years ago. Native Americans, African Americans, Irish, Italians, Japanese, Yankees, Rebels so on and so forth. Lots of them want monetary awards, acknowledgment, apologies blah blah blah.alftn":2lbqr2q4 said:the TENNESSEE part of me still resents the 20 years or so of occupation by Federal Troops...The wholesale Raping of the south that follow for the next 100 years...by Yankees
I think your resentment puts you in the unique position of sympathizing with these groups, understanding their frustration and desire for compensation and validation (all kinds of ...ation!!).
How lucky you are to share such a bond and brotherhood with so many other Americans!! To feel their pain, resentment and anger. Hold onto that ~ it might just come in handy someday.
angie":1ej0jxh1 said:It is interesting to hear you say that. Many groups of people in America today seem to resent still the way their ancestors were treated 150 years ago. Native Americans, African Americans, Irish, Italians, Japanese, Yankees, Rebels so on and so forth. Lots of them want monetary awards, acknowledgment, apologies blah blah blah.alftn":1ej0jxh1 said:the TENNESSEE part of me still resents the 20 years or so of occupation by Federal Troops...The wholesale Raping of the south that follow for the next 100 years...by Yankees
I think your resentment puts you in the unique position of sympathizing with these groups, understanding their frustration and desire for compensation and validation (all kinds of ...ation!!).
How lucky you are to share such a bond and brotherhood with so many other Americans!! To feel their pain, resentment and anger. Hold onto that ~ it might just come in handy someday.
Of course it will Van (glad you ladies caught it ;-) ). Not only that, it makes them so miserable to be around, that they further isolate themselves from people with healthy attitudes creating more feelings of anger, bitterness, hatred and resentment which, in hand, further isolates them from healthy people and so on and so forth.VanC":2eltycpf said:On the other hand, it might doom you to a life filled with anger, hatred, bitterness and resentment.
angie":czgiho6q said:Of course it will Van (glad you ladies caught it ;-) ). Not only that, it makes them so miserable to be around, that they further isolate themselves from people with healthy attitudes creating more feelings of anger, bitterness, hatred and resentment which, in hand, further isolates them from healthy people and so on and so forth.VanC":czgiho6q said:On the other hand, it might doom you to a life filled with anger, hatred, bitterness and resentment.
I see in my work too many people who have this victims attitude, which is always paired with entitlement complex. "I am a victim (in my own eyes), so I am entitled to...." entitled to their negative feelings, an apology, monetary reimbursement, sympathy, a government check, the good graces of their family, entitled to a listener when they want to verbally throw up all over the place ~ you name it, you owe it.
Interestingly enough, these "victims" scorn other "victims" not involved in their cause. "What are they so angry about, lousy free loaders trying to make a buck out of my paycheck?! If they want to know what "the shaft" is, they should come talk to ME! If you've had it bad, I've had it worse!! 150 years ago bad things happened to people I wouldn't know if I tripped over on the street and...... ."
blah blah blah. :roll:
chrisy":2j1udn2y said:Van C...I see you have a liking for our great man Winny Churchill...at one time he was not very liked as a lot of people looked at him as a war monger...but now he is remembered for great things. Such as this his greatly misquoted speech.
Even though large parts of Europe and many old and famous States have fallen or may fall into the grip of the Gestapo and all the odious apparatus of Nazi rule, we shall not flag or fail. We shall go on to the end, we shall fight in France, we shall fight on the seas and oceans, we shall fight with growing confidence and growing strength in the air, we shall defend our Island, whatever the cost may be, we shall fight on the beaches, we shall fight on the landing grounds, we shall fight in the fields and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills; we shall never surrender, and if, which I do not for a moment believe, this Island or a large part of it were subjugated and starving, then our Empire beyond the seas, armed and guarded by the British Fleet, would carry on the struggle, until, in God's good time, the New World, with all its power and might, steps forth to the rescue and the liberation of the Old .