cowboy43
Well-known member
My personal thoughts on life: I have been been blessed with 3 sons and 4 grandchildren all living on the ranch , one son has built his mechanic shop on the ranch where he makes his living, luckily we all live in harmony , they live their lives we live ours, we see each other several times a week if not daily, they never ask for financial help, we probably spend more on the grandchildren than we should but what the heck, sitting here watching 2 grandchildren racing around the stock tank I got to thinking: What if 43 years ago we had made the decision not to have children and how it would have redirected our lives , I know we would have a whole lot more money but it would be a great void in our lives, would we live in different place or house, would I still own my ranch or would I have sold it , would the relationship between my wife and I be the same, there are many more questions I have as to were we would be now. Am I the only one that has these weird thoughts or do other people stop and think where their lives would be if they had not had kids.
P.S.
I have never regretted having the kids
P.S.
I have never regretted having the kids