saltbranch":kanmeobf said:
How do you handle it? My kids are 16/17 and I find myself lost in things to discuss with my wife when we are alone. Life is so busy with bills, the boys, school, work... Then plan a weekend away and you can hear crickets on the way out of town. I love my wife,but its almost like we have become business partners.
Her B-day is coming and I have agreed going to watch a play, not my first choice. Ok you old farts, how did you deal with it?
Trust me - at first it is difficult - then it becomes heaven.
Much as I love my kids - I love to see them come to visit and I definitely love to see them leave.
It is your job to prep them for life and it means you truly do need to kick them out into the brave new world.
Oh, they will be back - do not worry - and they might be back with a male or female partner, or wife and husband and kids and all the other stuff - and then you will be paying even more!
As for being an old fart? Well I am now a new man and politically correct - so I will tell you that I am not an old fart - I am simply educated in the ways of life - and you are still an innocent no matter how smart you think you are! LOL
As for your wife - if you want to keep her then you better start paying attention to her - get her out of that shack and try some new things in life - you might actually enjoy that play if you open your mind to it.
Maybe both of you should take flying lessons or go to the beach and take surfing lessons.
Life is a box full of experiences - if you do not go and seek a few new ones you will become a boring old man - and no one likes a boring old man.
Make a point to try at least one new thing a week - if you run out of ideas try going to the library and reading a few adventure books - plenty of ideas can be found there.
You can only get stale if you allow yourself get stale. And if that happens - look in the mirror to find the person who is to blame!
Cheers
Bez