Okay, so I'm not a professional mechanic. But I've worked in the parts industry for NAPA, O'Reilly, and three GM dealerships, in all kinds of capacities including specializing in supplying techs with what they've needed when no one else can find it.
And I've heard a lot of stuff from experts that I questioned.
So I've made a point to test what I hear.
Not everything I hear, but a lot of it, for about fifty years.
I've run spark plugs for 160K miles after buying a vehicle at 40K with what I was pretty sure were original plugs. So 200K on the plugs and I sold the vehicle with those plugs still in it and running fine. I can't remember changing spark plugs since except one time when a mechanic claimed it would fix a problem and it didn't (loose vacuum hose). I've run air filters for decades and batteries double their claimed lifespan. I've never, ever changed antifreeze or transmission fluid in any vehicle I've ever owned. I've heard people say brake fluid needs to be changed. Yeah, no, I've never done it.
And I've watched carefully while I'm neglecting my cars to see what happens to vehicles that are getting regular, or overboard, maintenance.
And I understand that different rubbers deteriorate around different fuels. My lawnmower has super powers and it must be channeling the Eveready Rabbit, because it just keeps going, and going, and going. I've been wishing it would die so I can get a battery powered model, but I'm invested in seeing how long the damn thing will last. Eighteen and a half years and counting...