Supa Dexta and angus9259; Yes I am a pretensions a.sshole and I'm sorry. I really don't mean to antagonize anyone.
I do get frustrated however when I bring up a point of fact or opinion and get answers like "stop reading and start doing" Don't you think I would if I could?? Responses like that are not answers; they are childish and completely useless.
DOING IT is totally impossible for me for personal physical, financial and marital reasons. Might as well tell me to have a baby just so I know what it's like!
When I ask a question or state an opinion, even if I sound like a pretentious a.sshole, all I want is an answer or a rebuttal or a suggestion or a point in the right direction. Even "go to be nice you pretentious a.sshole", would be better that " go do it and see what happens". At least go to be nice is honest.
Frankly, when I get a reply like "go do it yourself and you'll see" I get a sick feeling that the person doesn't know the answer.
It has been my life long experience that when I engage people about their professions they are eager to discuss it (unless they are CIA spies). I don't get that from SOME of you guys. I have asked dozens of cattlepersons these or similar questions and shared opinions and the majority are civil and usually helpful and polite. What's wrong here? I suspect my brazen attitude isn't helping and I'll work on controlling it.