dieselbeef
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huh...I think you were talking to me..esp since my wife passed and I have to do everything....I spend too much time cussing and yelling
Farm Fence Solutions":1dq1jg56 said:
Farm Fence Solutions":2x6ozrr7 said:
Hope you smile, sing or whistle while you're doing it. :nod:Bigfoot":3u4uwui1 said:I've thought on all this a bunch lately. I made a personal commmitment back about '06 to enjoy life more. I have since come to the conclusion, that work is what I enjoy. Might as well do what you enjoy.
Bigfoot":7q4mb958 said:I've thought on all this a bunch lately. I made a personal commmitment back about '06 to enjoy life more. I have since come to the conclusion, that work is what I enjoy. Might as well do what you enjoy.
Jogeephus":1113mu9b said:I've been contemplating retirement for a few years now and its a hard decision. I had my first full time job at 8 years old and hated it. Would watch the clock and was convinced it took an hour to move five minutes but then I finally figured out that if I kept myself busy and looked for things to do and stayed busy the day would fly by.
When I was in my twenties I set a goal and promised myself I'd retire and do exactly what I wanted when I reached it. At 40 I realized I had hit that goal at 38 but was too busy to realize it and retirement was the last thing on my mind because I enjoyed what I was doing. Some question why I continue working so many hours and at times I question this myself. I don't think anyone has suffered from this because at a young age I was taught efficiency and did more before noon than many did in a day. This trait has been one of my strong points and I think its not the amount of time you spend at work or with family but the quality of that time. Putting it simply, I work hard and play hard because my time is a premium. I also learned that its futile to chase butterflies for the sake of pride. This took some time to learn but I finally got it when a wise man told me you can't make $30/hour doing $6/hour work even though you are more than capable of doing the $6/hour job. Though I don't need or want for anything and could close shop today I feel a responsibility to others who benefit from my working and I still get satisfaction from all of these things but money and trinkets are not my motivators.
I think my younger self would be let down by the person I have grown to be because I broke my promise of retirement and have never bought as many candy bars as I had once promised myself I would when I had the means. But in defense of myself I have done a lot of good and this good will be seen long after I'm gone and that - to me - is worth a lot.
zirlottkim":2fxpsfxi said:Ambition is what drives the world. The hard part is finding a balance between family and work. I can sympathize with Grit. To be successful at commercial shrimping requires most of the year away from home. 20 to 40 day trips with a week home in between trips. But that week is spent working on the boat preparing for the next trip. You just get to sleep at home. I did this for 25 years. I had a talent for it and felt I was made to do the job. I enjoyed it but it was mind consuming. There was no better feeling than coming through the pass after a long hard trip knowing I pushed the crew, the boat and myself and had a good trip in the hold. It was hard on family life so a few years back I decided to pursue the marketing side more and hired a Capt to take the boat. Through the years I would hear people condemn me some for "working my life away" but the some of the same people spend their lives without ever finding a job they enjoy doing. Work to them was a 40 hour a week "something you have to do", not something they poured their heart and soul into. I pitied them and I never wanted to be that type of person. I can't condemn someone for using their talents and being successful.
Joe, knowing you, you probably bought the candy bars.....you just gave them all to someone else and slipped away quietly.Jogeephus":3jhbe9xh said:I've been contemplating retirement for a few years now and its a hard decision. I had my first full time job at 8 years old and hated it. Would watch the clock and was convinced it took an hour to move five minutes but then I finally figured out that if I kept myself busy and looked for things to do and stayed busy the day would fly by.
When I was in my twenties I set a goal and promised myself I'd retire and do exactly what I wanted when I reached it. At 40 I realized I had hit that goal at 38 but was too busy to realize it and retirement was the last thing on my mind because I enjoyed what I was doing. Some question why I continue working so many hours and at times I question this myself. I don't think anyone has suffered from this because at a young age I was taught efficiency and did more before noon than many did in a day. This trait has been one of my strong points and I think its not the amount of time you spend at work or with family but the quality of that time. Putting it simply, I work hard and play hard because my time is a premium. I also learned that its futile to chase butterflies for the sake of pride. This took some time to learn but I finally got it when a wise man told me you can't make $30/hour doing $6/hour work even though you are more than capable of doing the $6/hour job. Though I don't need or want for anything and could close shop today I feel a responsibility to others who benefit from my working and I still get satisfaction from all of these things but money and trinkets are not my motivators.
I think my younger self would be let down by the person I have grown to be because I broke my promise of retirement and have never bought as many candy bars as I had once promised myself I would when I had the means. But in defense of myself I have done a lot of good and this good will be seen long after I'm gone and that - to me - is worth a lot.
herofan":82drj9hv said:Although stress has always been viewed as a negative thing, I think some people actually have to be under pressure in order to feel alive. That's certainly not me. I try the avoid stress. I've also never had one thing that was the focus of my life, even when it comes to fun
I don't know if I've mentioned before, but I sing with some guys on occasion. We do some local gigs on occasion, and sometimes have an out of town gig; it's fun. It's like a little taste of the limelight. I've always loved music. The guys are good, and we rarely practice.
We have all said, however, that if it got to the point we were practicing three times a week and playing every weekend, it would then become work and no longer be fun.
I feel that way about most everything. I don't like for my life to be consumed with activity.
I like being available when my daughter calls from college and says, "hey dad, you want to come down and be with me tomorrow?"
I'm curious, for those of you who do work a lot, how do you work out family time and obligations?
herofan":3e1f2msc said:I'm curious, for those of you who do work a lot, how do you work out family time and obligations?
Interesting you mention that. I have an unusual gift and played the piano, string bass & bass guitar by ear. As in, I need the score to follow along but I can't read a note of music. And yet I made first chair in the Wichita Youth Symphony Orchestra. My brother kept pressuring me to go for a scholarship but that would have turned something I truly enjoyed into hard work. And I really haven't played much since college. BTW, regarding your later post, I did get my degree in Psychology ;-)herofan":125pr9s3 said:Although stress has always been viewed as a negative thing, I think some people actually have to be under pressure in order to feel alive. That's certainly not me. I try the avoid stress. I've also never had one thing that was the focus of my life, even when it comes to fun
I don't know if I've mentioned before, but I sing with some guys on occasion. We do some local gigs on occasion, and sometimes have an out of town gig; it's fun. It's like a little taste of the limelight. I've always loved music. The guys are good, and we rarely practice.
We have all said, however, that if it got to the point we were practicing three times a week and playing every weekend, it would then become work and no longer be fun.
I feel that way about most everything. I don't like for my life to be consumed with activity.
I like being available when my daughter calls from college and says, "hey dad, you want to come down and be with me tomorrow?"
I'm curious, for those of you who do work a lot, how do you work out family time and obligations?